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Black Onyx: The Conscious Decoupling Stone!!

Onyx - the Energy 'Fixer'! 

By Rev Gillian V Harris, M.S.P.
September 10, 2018

Somebody's gotta come in and fix the mess when it happens! Onyx specializes in this!  It's the energetic 'Cleaner'.   

The mission to Call in The One is exciting!  But sometimes we put the energetic cart before the horse! We’re calling in the one before cleaning the house we’re calling them into! It appears clean at a glance but there’s still remnants of the past relationship in the from of figurative dust in the corners, hurt feelings hiding on bookcases and around all the nick knacks n whatnot!!  Hiding back there and ready to travel with you into your next relationship. Not okay! Just like you would genuinely smudge your house with sage to clear negative energy, I recommend the vibration of Black Onyx help clear your path of energetic resistance, emotional debris, baggage from your previous relationships!

There are several stones that will assist in this house cleaning but I’ll start with Black Onyx as my first recommendation.  It's transformational! This Stone literally absorbs negative energy – like a vacuum cleaner.  And it seems to transform that negativity - into nothingness. Onyx is like energetic acid to negativity.  And in doing what it does to negativity it goes about supporting you in your personal energy. By preventing the darkness from draining you it encourages stamina to your personal energy. The characteristics of Onyx support emotional strength. Especially when there is stress confusion or grief – which we can experience at the ending of a romance – that PREVIOUS relationship! So, Onyx can come in very handy in helping to clear all of that.  It supports you in clearing the past so you can go into the future lighter and more available for the positive you deserve!


As I remind my clients and students, I also remind you - it's never just the stones making the changes in your life.  The stones are interacting with YOU. You drive this ship! So, they're following your lead! And they will chip in to assist energetically! But without your lead, the stones are nothing.

So, as you repeat your affirmations, hold your Onyx and proclaim your intentions!  In meditation hold your Onyx and blend your energy field with its energy field. Absorb the quality the energy the benefits of the stone while you're holding it. And then of course just be quiet and let the stone and its energy field do what it does naturally - which is more than I can put words to at this moment.

One of the most beautiful things about Onyx is that it is developing you emotionally or it is assisting! But so it is clearing negativity which also makes space for you to have lighter emotions hence more positive thoughts going forward.  So that you can move gracefully from here into your new relationship genuinely with a clean slate. OR if so if it’s an ongoing relationship, use your onyx to help clear past hurts so that you can move forward in a healthier way with your partner.  I’d promised you two stones! Next time, I’ll share all the juicy details about Obsidian!

Before I go I want to remind you that one sitting with your Stones is not necessarily enough!  Just buying them and putting them in a really pretty crystal grid, isn’t enough.  Your active participation is required as you fully create your desired outcome. Know that transformation is never an ‘event’. It's a process.